Look, if you aren’t watching HBO’s Harley Quinn, what are you even doing with your life? It’s chaotic, it’s hilarious, and let’s be real—Harley and Ivy are the ultimate power couple of the multiverse. Forget the high-stakes DC drama for a second; we’re here for the messy, heartfelt, and totally unhinged relationship development. Grab some snacks, because we are ranking the episodes that made us ship these two until the end of time.
1. Finding Mr. Right (Season 1, Episode 3)
This is where the foundation was laid, people! We see Ivy acting as the voice of reason while Harley tries to be a ‘villain’ in her own right. The chemistry is already there, even if they aren’t admitting it yet. Ivy’s dry sarcasm against Harley’s pure chaos? It’s a classic trope, but they do it better than anyone else. Honestly, watching Ivy deal with Harley’s nonsense is the purest form of friendship I’ve ever seen.
2. You’re a Damn Good Cop, Jim Gordon (Season 1, Episode 5)
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Okay, so this episode is a total fever dream. Harley and Ivy are just trying to survive in a city that’s actively falling apart. The banter? 10/10. It’s the first time you really see Ivy put Harley’s needs above her own plans for world domination. If that’s not the ultimate love language, I don’t know what is. I’m literally living for these moments of quiet amidst the explosions.
3. The Line (Season 1, Episode 10)
We can’t talk about this show without mentioning the tension. Things get real dark, real fast, and Ivy is the only one who can actually reach Harley. It’s the episode that proves their bond isn’t just for show. When the world is ending, who do you want in your corner? Exactly. Watching them navigate the trauma of their respective villain arcs is just… chef’s kiss. No cap, this is where I started crying.
4. Thawing Out (Season 2, Episode 1)
Season 2 starts off with such a vibe. Ivy is trying to get her life together, and Harley is… well, Harley. The dynamic shifts here, and it feels like they’re finally becoming equals. You can tell the writers knew exactly what the fans wanted. I mean, the way Ivy looks at her? Stop, I’m not crying, you’re crying. It’s the perfect blend of humor and genuine heart that makes this show a total winner.
5. Trapped (Season 2, Episode 4)
This is the one. The episode where we get the classic ‘stuck in a room’ trope. It’s the ultimate test of their relationship, and honestly, watching them bicker is better than any rom-com I’ve seen this year. They’re so clearly perfect for each other that it hurts. If you’re looking for a reason to love this show, this episode is literally the evidence. It’s iconic, it’s messy, and it’s everything.
6. Batman’s Back, Man (Season 2, Episode 6)
Watching these two handle the return of the Bat is just hilarious. Harley is in her feelings, and Ivy is just trying to be a supportive bestie (who is secretly in love with her, obviously). The tension is so high you could cut it with a knife. I’m honestly obsessed with how the show balances the superhero tropes with the actual emotional development of these two. It’s just so well written, guys.
7. There’s No Place to Go But Down (Season 2, Episode 7)
This episode? It changed everything. The bachelorette party gone wrong? A literal mood. But the emotional payoff at the end of this episode is what we were all waiting for. When they finally address the elephant in the room, it’s like the whole internet collectively gasped. If you haven’t watched this one, stop reading and go watch it right now. It’s the peak of their relationship arc, and I am still not over it.
8. Something Borrowed, Something Green (Season 2, Episode 13)
The wedding! Or, well, the wedding that wasn’t. This episode is pure chaos and I love it. Ivy’s bridal look? Iconic. Harley crashing the wedding? Even more iconic. It’s the finale we deserved, showing that their love is stronger than any societal expectation. I’m lowkey obsessed with how they keep reinventing the ‘villain’ trope to be so centered on their queer joy. It’s just so refreshing to see.
9. A Fight Worth Fighting For (Season 3, Episode 8)
Season 3 really leaned into the ‘Harlivy’ era and we were all living for it. This episode is all about them navigating life as a legit couple. It’s not all sunshine and rainbows, but that’s what makes it real. They have to deal with their pasts while trying to build a future, and honestly? It’s relatable. Who hasn’t had a chaotic ex or a messy family situation to deal with?
10. The First Person to Visit the Museum (Season 4, Episode 9)
We end our list with the powerhouse that is Season 4. This episode shows how far they’ve come. They aren’t just ‘the clown and the plant lady’ anymore; they are a team. Seeing them tackle the corporate villainy of Gotham while balancing their own identities is just *chef’s kiss*. I’m honestly so proud of them. It’s the perfect place to leave our favorite duo—for now, at least. Can we get a Season 5 already?
FAQs
Are Harley and Ivy dating in the HBO show?
Yes, absolutely! They officially become a couple in Season 2, and their relationship remains a central, driving force of the show through all current seasons. It is truly the best romance in the DC universe.
Which episode do Harley and Ivy kiss?
The big, game-changing moment happens in Season 2, Episode 7, titled ‘There’s No Place to Go But Down.’ It is arguably the most important episode for their relationship and a total fan favorite for a reason.
Is Harley Quinn on HBO worth watching?
100%. It’s hilarious, smart, and has a 90%+ rating on Rotten Tomatoes. If you love dark humor, great character development, and queer representation, you are going to be completely hooked from the very first episode.
Okay, I’m officially spent. Writing about these two makes me want to start a rewatch immediately. They really are the blueprint for chaotic, healthy, and supportive relationships. Did your favorite episode make the list, or did I miss one that you’re obsessed with? Let me know in the comments—I’m dying to hear your thoughts!

